
My husband and I had only been dating a couple of weeks when THE POSTCARD came. I was sitting on the sofa when he brought it in with the mail. A dark look crossed over his face and I was curious. “Anything wrong?” I asked.
“It’s the family reunion,” he replied.
“Oh,” I said. “That’s…nice?”
He sighed loudly and sat beside me. “You wouldn’t want to come, would you?”
I couldn’t read the emotions playing out on his face, so I just smiled. “Sounds like…fun?”
I was wrong.
His family reunion was held every year, the first weekend in August on a quaint family farm. We drove past cornfields and silos and a huge red barn. At the end of the drive was a charming farmhouse. The entire setting was picturesque and perfect and I was completely puzzled about his initial reaction.

To the right of the farmhouse was a large yard with a huge tent set up, covering several long tables of food. Guests were seated around the tables, eating and chatting and having what seemed to be a grand time! As we got out of the truck, we saw that several people were starting to clear their plates and cover the remaining food and my future husband (FH) directed our little group (the two of us and our two children) to chairs that were set up on the opposite side of the driveway.
FH ushered us to the very back row and soon his parents and his brother and his family joined us. As the rows filled in, an adorable young girl passed out…programs? (huh?) I turned to my FH and started to ask about them, when a little boy carrying the American Flag caught my eye. He stepped to the front of the gathered family and everyone stood and recited the Pledge of Allegiance. (Okay…?)

The boy moved off to the side as an older man came to the front of the group and led the family in the Lord’s Prayer. As we sat back down, I noticed plates being passed among the rows and I turned to FH. He whispered, “you’ll see,” as he dropped a $20 in the plate and passed it.

The same man welcomed everyone to the Family reunion and asked that the Secretary rise and read the minutes of the last reunion. (excuse me?) Yup, a sweet looking, older woman rose and read the minutes, which were then approved and she sat back down. The speaker asked for the Treasurer to rise and give her report. Another woman rose, and reported how much money had just been collected. Then she announced the expenses the reunion had incurred over the year: a tent repair, printing of THE POSTCARDS, prizes and items for the games, and, she said, of course the ice cream! Excited murmurs went through the crowd and many of the children clapped at the prospect of the ice cream!
But alas, the meeting was not over. We sat through old business and new business and then came the children’s presentations. Child after child came to the front of the group and sang songs, recited poems or played instruments. Finally, the “business” portion of the reunion was over and the older man announced the games were being set up and the ice cream would be served! (The ice cream was hand churned and you had a choice of A scoop of chocolate OR A scoop of cherry vanilla—there were no seconds.)

But before any of that happened, we were all asked to line up for the group family photo. Apparently this reunion has reunion scrapbooks dating back to the very first one (don’t ask me what year, by now I was numb and wondering what I was dating into). We dutifully lined up, adults in the back, children in the front and smiled for the camera.

While we ate our ice cream, FH told us that the games were broken down by age group, starting with the youngest and working their way up. Since we had some time, we walked around, examining the family tree (written down on a window shade—and tracing the family back to the Mayflower—I kid you not), petting the animals and watching the older man from the meeting (the reunion president?) back a tractor out of the barn. There was going to be a hayride (not having grown up on a farm, I was NOT looking forward to that—would this day never end?)

On the long ride home, FH was quiet and from the corner of my eye, I could see him stealing glances at me. Finally he found the courage to ask what I thought…was it just too weird to be a part of? I laughed, told him it was charming in its ways, and reassured him we would be fine. After all, I said, you’re coming to my family reunion NEXT month…LOL










































































