
The picture below is Cody Johnson, a country music singer who sings a very poignant song—“’Till You Can’t”. (The lyrics are also below.) This song always reminds me of the people in my life that are gone, but one very important one. His name was John and we became good friends in middle school. He was a shy, handsome young man with penetrating brown eyes a girl could get lost in. And I did. I had a crush on him for years, but with his shy nature, nothing ever happened. We were best friends. Then I met an older guy who became my first boyfriend. John never cared for him and as the years went by, he began to question my boyfriend’s motives. John and I wrote each other every summer and then still wrote when he finally went off to college. That first Christmas he came home, he called to get together, but I wasn’t home to take the call. And I never returned his call. I had had a talk with my boyfriend about “our future” and just as John had warned me, there was none. I was embarrassed and didn’t want to admit to John that he had been right. He went back to college and committed suicide. His mother said he was depressed over the Christmas break that none of his friends made time for him. I will never forgive myself for that. But I did learn a lesson. I tell people that I love them—often—and I ask how they are and I let them know I appreciate them in my life. “ ‘Cause you’ll never know how bad you wanna till you can’t someday…”

“‘Til You Can’t”
Cody Johnson
You can tell your old man you’ll do some largemouth fishing another time
You just got too much on your plate to bait and cast a line
You can always put a rain check in his hand till you can’t
You can keep putting off forever with that girl who’s heart you hold
Swearing that you’ll ask some day further down the road
You can always put a diamond on her hand till you can’t
If you got a chance, take it, take it while you got a chance
If you got a dream, chase it, ’cause a dream won’t chase you back
If you’re gonna love somebody, hold ’em as long and as strong and as close as you can
Till you can’t
There’s a box of greasy parts sitting in the trunk of that ’65
Still waiting on you and your grandad to bring it back to life
You can always get around to fixing up that Pontiac till you can’t
If you got a chance, take it, take it while you got a chance
If you got a dream, chase it, ’cause a dream won’t chase you back
If you’re gonna love somebody, hold ’em as long and as strong and as close as you can
Till you can’t
So take that phone call from your momma and just talk away
‘Cause you’ll never know how bad you wanna till you can’t someday
Don’t wait on tomorrow ’cause tomorrow may not show
Say your sorries, your I-love-yous, ’cause man you never know
If you got a chance, take it, take it while you got a chance
If you got a dream, chase it, ’cause a dream won’t chase you back
If you’re gonna love somebody, hold ’em as long and as strong and as close as you can
Till you can’t
If you got a chance, take it, take it while you got a chance
If you got a dream, chase it, ’cause a dream won’t chase you back
If you’re gonna love somebody, hold ’em as long and as strong and as close as you can
Until you can’t
Till you can’t
Yeah, take it
Another song that rings true with me is “When It Rains It Pours” by Luke Combs. His girlfriend leaves and he thinks it’s gonna be the “death” of him and it turns out to be his “saving grace”. Been there! The decision to keep my child was not an easy one—it was the most difficult of my life—but I stood firm in my beliefs and guess what? My child led me to the love of my life!!! Things happen for a reason!

“When It Rains It Pours”
Luke Combs
Sunday morning, man, she woke up fighting mad
Bitching and moaning on and on ’bout the time I had
And by Tuesday, you could say that girl was good as gone
And then when Thursday came around, I was all alone
So I went for a drive to clear my mind, ended up at a Shell on I-65
Then I won a hundred bucks on a scratch off ticket
Bought two twelve packs and a tank of gas with it
She swore they were a waste of time, oh, but she was wrong
I was caller number 5 on the radio station
Won a 4-day, 3-night beach vacation
Deep sea, senorita, fishing down in Panama
And I ain’t gotta see my ex future mother-in-law anymore
Oh, Lord, when it rains it pours
Now she was sure real quick to up and apologize
When she heard about my new found luck on that FM dial
And it’s crazy how lately now it just seems to come in waves
What I thought was gonna be the death of me was my saving grace
It’s got me thinking that her leaving is the only logical reason
That I got the last spot in the Hooter’s parking lot
And the waitress left her number on my check with a heart
She picked up on the first ring when I gave her a call
And I only spent five bucks at the Moose Club Raffle
Won a used four-wheeler and three free passes
For me and two of my buddies to play a round of golf
And I ain’t gotta see my ex future mother-in-law anymore
Oh, Lord, when it rains it pours
When it rains it pours
I’ve been on one hell of a redneck roll for three weeks now
And it all started on the day that she walked out
Then I won a hundred bucks on a scratch off ticket
Bought two twelve packs and a tank of gas with it
She swore they were a waste of time, oh, but she was wrong
And I was caller number 5 on the radio station
Won a 4-day, 3-night beach vacation
Deep sea, senorita, fishing down in Panama
And I ain’t gotta see my ex future mother-in-law anymore
Oh, Lord, when it rains it pours
When it rains it pours
The last song here is a good reminder that there are 2 sides to every story and you may be surprised by who’s lying to you. The man in this song, is being gracious—breakups are inevitable at times—but how we treat others going forward is paramount. Don’t jump the gun and don’t spread lies. The coverup is always worse.

“Truth About You”
Mitchell Tenpenny
Yeah, this town’s been telling me
I’ve done some things I never did
Yeah, the grapevine starts with a glass of wine
And you taking a sip
Every word that you’re saying’s
Another stab to my reputation
And I can’t take it anymore
But you’ve opened that door
Yeah, there’s two sides to every breakup
One’s a lie and one’s the truth
One of ’em went down and one was made up
But in the end we both lose
Why can’t we meet in the middle
Call it even, call a truce
If you quit telling lies about me
I won’t tell the truth about you
Like how you picked a fight
Every time you saw me get a text
To make yourself feel better
That you still talk to your ex
Yeah, you told your friends, you told your mama
That I’m the root of all the drama
But we both know why this ended
Girl, I caught you red-handed
Yeah, there’s two sides to every breakup
One’s a lie and one’s the truth
One of ’em went down and one was made up
But in the end, we both lose
Why can’t we meet in the middle
Call it even, call a truce
If you quit telling lies about me
Well, I won’t tell the truth about you
Yeah, I truly wish the best for you
So don’t ruin the next for me
‘Cause you really don’t want me to tell the truth
For everyone to see, yeah
That there’s two sides to every breakup
One’s a lie and one’s the truth
One of ’em went down and one was made up
In the end, we both lose
Why can’t we meet in the middle
Call it even, call a truce
Yeah, if you quit telling lies about me
Well, I won’t tell the truth about you
(Won’t tell the, won’t tell the, won’t tell the truth about you)
Tell the truth about
(Won’t tell the, won’t tell the, won’t tell the truth about you)
(Won’t tell the, won’t tell the, won’t tell the truth about you)
I don’t wanna tell the truth
(Won’t tell the, won’t tell the, won’t tell the truth about you)










































































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